feat(desktop): runtime-configurable backend server address

The desktop shell is one generic .deb/.AppImage distributed via
mca/public_releases, not built per-booth, but the backend origin was baked
in at build time (VITE_API_BASE, hardcoded to http://127.0.0.1:3000) — the
same installer could never point at a different appliance without a
rebuild.

Adds ConnectScreen (shown before Login in Tauri when no backend is saved),
backed by tauri-plugin-store persisting the operator-entered URL across
restarts. CSP's connect-src tightens to 'self' only — all backend traffic
already routes through tauri-plugin-http/websocket, which run Rust-side
and are outside connect-src's reach anyway — and the real access boundary
moves to capabilities/default.json's http:default scope, wildcarded so an
operator-chosen host is actually reachable. Adds a "Change server" control
in Setup (desktop-only) to repoint an already-configured install.

While tracing the desktop auth path for this: tauri-plugin-http's fetch()
runs through Rust's reqwest, which keeps its own cookie jar separate from
the webview, so document.cookie on tauri://localhost never sees the
parking_csrf cookie the server sets (open upstream bug,
tauri-apps/tauri#13045/#11518). This means the desktop app has likely been
silently sending no CSRF header on every mutation since the shell was
first built — pre-existing, independent of this change. Fixed by having
sessionView() (routes/auth.ts) also echo the CSRF value in the login/me
JSON body; the desktop client stashes it in memory and echoes that instead
of reading document.cookie. assertCsrf() itself is untouched.

Verified end-to-end against a real LAN-bound dev server: login returns a
csrfToken matching the cookie, a mutation using the body-sourced token in
X-CSRF-Token succeeds (200), and the same mutation without it still
correctly 403s.

apps/desktop/src-tauri/tauri.conf.json

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
     "devUrl": "http://localhost:5173",
     "frontendDist": "../../web/dist",
     "beforeDevCommand": "pnpm --filter @parking/web dev",
-    "beforeBuildCommand": "VITE_API_BASE=http://127.0.0.1:3000 pnpm --filter @parking/web build"
+    "beforeBuildCommand": "pnpm --filter @parking/web build"
   },
   "app": {
     "windows": [
@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@
       }
     ],
     "security": {
-      "csp": "default-src 'self'; img-src 'self' data: blob:; style-src 'self' 'unsafe-inline'; connect-src 'self' http://127.0.0.1:3000 http://localhost:3000 ws://127.0.0.1:3000 ws://localhost:3000"
+      "csp": "default-src 'self'; img-src 'self' data: blob:; style-src 'self' 'unsafe-inline'; connect-src 'self'"
     }
   },
   "bundle": {